This morning while meditating, I found myself calling in the kind of love that can deepen into something truly soulful and lasting. As part of this intention setting practice, I went through a list; all the qualities my heart desires – smart, successful, financially stable, kind, compassionate, spiritual, sexy... and everything else I'm looking for in an amazing life partner!
Then came a gentle reminder from within: "to attract it you must become it".
Sitting with these qualities really made me pause and reflect: Am I embodying each one of these wonderful traits myself?
I feel like I'm close... and yet there was one glaring hole. How successful do I feel? Damn! I had to dive deeper into that one.
What am I defining as success? I've raised three amazing humans, I'm honest and compassionate. I created and ran a successful spiritual gift store. I know how to hold successful, transformative workshops and classes. My healing work is truly connected to Source. So why is this area not feeling fully embodied to me?
Because I'm not doing enough of it! I haven't had an in-person workshop since before covid. I want more and I'm holding back. As long as I hold back from myself in any area that I want in a partner, I will not be able to attract what I want. I need to love myself so completely that I go after all of life for me!
In my meditation I more fully understood that it's not about finding someone at all - but rather becoming the lover who deserves incredible companionship along this journey of life ❤️.
I’m focusing on becoming the lover I want to have. Being so confident and successful in my life (in the way I define success) that I'm happy and fulfilled and complete on my own. The partner who can walk by my side when I am at my best (and worst) is the partner I want.
Which reminds me of the work I did with Shay @ Rising Woman – If you haven’t checked it out, her Becoming the One program is worth a look.