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<channel><title><![CDATA[TERRI LUNDQUIST - Wisdom Well]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist]]></link><description><![CDATA[Wisdom Well]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2026 08:42:29 -0600</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Why the Tarot Cards That Make You Uncomfortable Often Carry Your Greatest Wisdom]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/why-the-tarot-cards-that-make-you-uncomfortable-often-carry-your-greatest-wisdom]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/why-the-tarot-cards-that-make-you-uncomfortable-often-carry-your-greatest-wisdom#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2026 14:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Tarot]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/why-the-tarot-cards-that-make-you-uncomfortable-often-carry-your-greatest-wisdom</guid><description><![CDATA[       If you've ever received a tarot reading, you've probably caught yourself hoping for certain cards to appear. The Star. The Sun. The Empress. They feel reassuring, affirming, and full of promise. Then a card like Death or The Tower appears, and it's easy to feel your heart sink.But what if the cards that make us uncomfortable are actually the ones our soul has been waiting for?&#8203;       One of the greatest misconceptions about tarot is that difficult-looking cards predict misfortune. I [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/tarot-gentle-healing_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span>If you've ever received a tarot reading, you've probably caught yourself hoping for certain cards to appear. The Star. The Sun. The Empress. They feel reassuring, affirming, and full of promise. Then a card like Death or The Tower appears, and it's easy to feel your heart sink.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>But what if the cards that make us uncomfortable are actually the ones our soul has been waiting for?</span></span><br />&#8203;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/published/card-we-resist.png?1782936509" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><span>One of the greatest misconceptions about tarot is that difficult-looking cards predict misfortune. In truth, tarot is far less interested in telling you what will happen than it is in helping you understand what is unfolding within you. Every card is an invitation into greater awareness. Some simply ask us to look at the places we'd rather avoid.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>There is an important difference between a card that feels scary and one that is truly harmful. Tarot contains no "bad" cards. Some cards challenge us because they reflect change, endings, loss, or the parts of ourselves we haven't fully embraced. Yet those very experiences are often the doorway to healing, freedom, and a more authentic life.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>When we notice ourselves resisting a card, we can become curious instead of fearful. What part of this message feels uncomfortable? What truth am I not yet ready to acknowledge? Where might I be holding on to something that has already run its course? Resistance often points directly toward the place where healing is quietly waiting.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>Take the Death card, for example. Despite its name, it rarely speaks of physical death. Instead, it symbolizes endings that make room for new beginnings. It asks us what we are ready to release so that something more aligned can emerge.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>The Tower often creates anxiety because it depicts dramatic change. Yet its deeper wisdom is liberation. It clears away structures, beliefs, or identities that were never built on solid truth, allowing us to rebuild from a place of authenticity rather than fear.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>The Devil is frequently misunderstood as well. Rather than representing evil, it gently shines a light on the ways we keep ourselves trapped through fear, shame, unhealthy attachments, or limiting beliefs. Once we can see those patterns clearly, we regain the freedom to choose differently.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>The Three of Swords acknowledges heartbreak, grief, and emotional pain. While no one welcomes these experiences, this card reminds us that healing begins when we allow ourselves to feel what has been pushed aside. There is profound strength in allowing the heart to soften rather than harden.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>Even the Ten of Swords, one of the most dramatic images in the deck, carries hope beneath its surface. It speaks of reaching the end of a painful chapter. While something may be complete, the sunrise on the horizon reminds us that every ending eventually gives way to a new beginning.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>The next time a challenging card appears in a reading, resist the urge to see it as a warning. Instead, imagine it as a compassionate teacher arriving with exactly the wisdom you need in this season of your life. Often the cards we fear the most become the ones we later recognize as faithful guides.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>Tarot is not asking us to predict the future. It is inviting us to meet ourselves more honestly, more compassionately, and more courageously. When we learn to welcome every card with an open heart, we discover that even the most uncomfortable messages are often expressions of deep love&mdash;gently guiding us back toward wholeness.</span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The June Check-In: A 4-Card Tarot Spread and Rune Guide for Mid-Year Realignment]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/the-june-check-in-a-4-card-tarot-spread-and-rune-guide-for-mid-year-realignment]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/the-june-check-in-a-4-card-tarot-spread-and-rune-guide-for-mid-year-realignment#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Tarot Spreads]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/the-june-check-in-a-4-card-tarot-spread-and-rune-guide-for-mid-year-realignment</guid><description><![CDATA[       Take a deep breath and look at the calendar. Yes, it&rsquo;s true: we have officially reached the halfway point of the year. Well, almost&hellip;the halfway point will fall on July 2 when we are 183 days into the year. If your immediate reaction to that realization is a slight wave of panic, a heavy sigh, or a bewildered &ldquo;Where on earth did the first six months go?&rdquo;&mdash;please know you are not alone.Back in January, the energy was crisp, full of clean-slate promises and shin [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/4-card-tarot-spread_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Take a deep breath and look at the calendar. Yes, it&rsquo;s true: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">we have officially reached the halfway point of the year.</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"> Well, almost&hellip;the halfway point will fall on July 2 when we are 183 days into the year. If your immediate reaction to that realization is a slight wave of panic, a heavy sigh, or a bewildered </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&ldquo;Where on earth did the first six months go?&rdquo;</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&mdash;please know you are not alone.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Back in January, the energy was crisp, full of clean-slate promises and shiny resolutions. Now, six months later, reality has set in. Maybe some of those intentions have beautifully bloomed. Maybe some have completely mutated into something else. And maybe a few of them are gathering dust at the bottom of your to-do list, leaving you feeling slightly guilty or unanchored. I know some of mine are.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">As a women's empowerment coach and intuitive reader, I want to invite you to drop the guilt. June isn't a deadline to beat yourself up over; it is a sacred pitstop. It is a cosmic threshold where we get to look back, look within, and consciously choose how we want to direct our precious life force energy for the rest of the year.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Grab your favorite Tarot deck and a journal. It's time for an empowering, intuitive mid-year realignment.</span></span><br />&#8203;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">&#8203;<span>The Mid-Year Realignment Tarot Spread</span></font></strong></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/4-tarot-card_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">This original 4-card spread is designed specifically for feminine empowerment. It isn't about predicting a passive future; it&rsquo;s a diagnostic tool to help you see exactly where you are standing in your power right now.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Shuffle your deck, ground your energy, and lay out four cards in a cross or a straight line:</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Card 1: What I Have Birthed So Far</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Women are natural creators, but we are also notoriously bad at celebrating our own wins. We finish a massive project or survive a difficult season, and immediately sprint to the next task. This card is your mirror of celebration. What internal strength, project, boundary, or shift have you successfully brought into reality since January? </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Acknowledge your medicine.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Card 2: Where My Energy Is Leaking</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">You cannot build your empire or heal your life if your energetic bucket has holes in it. This card reveals the boundary leaks. Are you over-giving? Are you wasting energy on situations you cannot change? Where is your life force draining away into the background?</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Card 3: The Shadow Holding Me Back</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">The shadow isn't bad; it&rsquo;s just the part of us that is operating out of fear, protection, or old conditioning. This card unmasks the current subconscious block preventing you from stepping into your next level of visibility and sovereignty. It answers the question: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">What am I still clinging to that I have outgrown?</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Card 4: The Guiding Force for the Next 6 Months</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">This is your North Star card. It represents the specific archetype, energy, or mindset you need to embody to navigate the rest of the year with grace, power, and alignment. Look to this card whenever you feel lost in the months ahead.</span></span><br /><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">The Rune Archetypes of June: Berkano &amp; Sowilo<br />&#8203;</font></strong></span><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">If you work with the ancient Norse Runes (or want to infuse their primal magic into your June), two specific symbols are dominating the energetic landscape right now. You can use these archetypes alongside your Tarot reading to anchor your mid-year intentions.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>1. Berkano (The Birch Rune) &#5842;</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Berkano represents the archetype of the Cosmic Mother, birth, and new beginnings. It is the energy of continuous growth and nurturing.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">The June Medicine:</span><span> Look at your life through the lens of Berkano. The things you started in January are no longer just seeds&mdash;they are young plants. Berkano asks: </span><span>How can you gently cultivate and protect what you&rsquo;ve started, rather than abandoning it out of impatience?</span><span> * </span><span style="font-weight:700">How to Meditate on It:</span><span> Visualize the rune &#5842; glowing softly over your womb space or heart. Breathe in its stabilizing, maternal protection, giving yourself permission to grow at your own natural, organic pace.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>2. Sowilo (The Sun Rune) &#5835;</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Sowilo is the rune of the Sun, success, wholeness, and peak elemental fire. It represents the life force energy that dispels darkness and brings hidden things to light.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">The June Medicine:</span><span> This is your call to absolute visibility. Sowilo provides the raw power needed to burn away the shadow revealed in Card 3 of your Tarot spread. It says: </span><span>You have the light within you to conquer the doubt.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">How to Meditate on It:</span><span> Draw the rune &#5835; on a piece of paper or visualize it shining brightly at your solar plexus. Feel its heat burning through hesitation, people-pleasing, and smallness, recharging your internal battery.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">Rewriting the Rest of Your Year</font></strong></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">The beautiful thing about a mid-year check-in is that the pen is still in your hand. You are not trapped by how the first six months went. If you realize you&rsquo;ve been walking down a path that drains you, you have the sovereign right to pivot today.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Listen to your cards, honor the runes, and remember that you have all the power you need to make the next six months an absolute masterpiece.</span></span><br /><br /><em><span><span style="font-weight: 700;"><font color="#8640ae">Want a Deep-Dive Custom Roadmap for Your Next 6 Months?</font></span></span></em><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Doing this work on your own is beautiful, but sometimes you need an objective guide to help you read between the lines, unearth the blind spots, and map out an empowered strategy. Let's do it together. [</span><span style="font-weight: 700;"><a href="https://www.terrilundquist.com/store/p25/Tarot-Reading.html" target="_blank" style=""><font color="#8640ae">Click here to book a 1:1 Tarot &amp; Rune Illumination Session with me</font></a></span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">] this June, and let's unlock the exact guidance your soul is calling for.</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Radical Joy: Why Play and Laughter Are Your Highest-Frequency Healing Tools This Summer]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/radical-joy-why-play-and-laughter-are-your-highest-frequency-healing-tools-this-summer]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/radical-joy-why-play-and-laughter-are-your-highest-frequency-healing-tools-this-summer#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Living the Life you Want]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/radical-joy-why-play-and-laughter-are-your-highest-frequency-healing-tools-this-summer</guid><description><![CDATA[       Let&rsquo;s be honest for a moment: healing can feel exhausting.If you&rsquo;ve been in the wellness or spiritual space for a while, your calendar might look a lot like a second job. Between processing ancestral trauma, doing deep shadow work, tracking your nervous system metrics, journaling through blocks, and trying to perfectly balance your chakras, it&rsquo;s easy to feel a strange kind of spiritual burnout.We get so serious about "fixing" ourselves that we completely forget what we a [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/radical-joy_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Let&rsquo;s be honest for a moment: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">healing can feel exhausting.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">If you&rsquo;ve been in the wellness or spiritual space for a while, your calendar might look a lot like a second job. Between processing ancestral trauma, doing deep shadow work, tracking your nervous system metrics, journaling through blocks, and trying to perfectly balance your chakras, it&rsquo;s easy to feel a strange kind of spiritual burnout.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">We get so serious about "fixing" ourselves that we completely forget what we are actually healing </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">for</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">As a shamanic practitioner and empowerment coach, I want to give you permission to put down the heavy lifting for a moment. As we head into the sun-drenched days of late June, your soul doesn't need another therapy session or a deeper meditation.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">It needs </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">play</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">.</span></span><br />&#8203;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">&#8203;</font></strong><span><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">The Shamanic Perspective: Joy as Soul Medicine</font></strong></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">In shamanic traditions, when someone comes to a medicine person feeling chronically fatigued, anxious, or disconnected, the shaman doesn't just ask about their trauma. They ask questions like: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">When did you stop dancing? When did you stop singing? When did you find comfort in the sweet territory of silence?</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">A loss of joy is often a symptom of what we call </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">soul loss</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&mdash;specifically, a disconnection from your inner child or the wild, untamed essence of who you are.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Your inner child doesn't heal by being psychoanalyzed on a couch. She heals when she is allowed to come out and play. She heals when you let her get her hands dirty in the garden, stay up late to watch the fireflies, or laugh so hard your stomach aches.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Joy isn't a reward you finally earn after you&rsquo;ve cleared all your trauma. </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">Joy </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">is</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700"> the clearing mechanism.</span></span><br /><br /><span><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">The Energetics of a Good Belly Laugh</font></strong></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">I&rsquo;ve had the immense gift of spending the last two months deeply immersed in the world of my two-year-old granddaughter and six-month-old grandson, and they have been my greatest spiritual teachers lately. I constantly catch my granddaughter laughing for no reason at all. She doesn&rsquo;t wait for a funny moment to happen; she just laughs purely for the joy of laughing. And the moment she starts, I can't help but follow her lead. Then, her baby brother looks at us both, catches the frequency, and joins right in. It is a beautiful, unfiltered chain reaction of pure life force energy. Children don't need a reason to play or a permission slip to feel joy&mdash;they are wired for it, and they remind us that we are, too.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">From an energy healing perspective, joy and laughter are lightning-fast frequency shifters. When you are stuck in over-thinking or grief, your energy fields contract, becoming dense and sluggish.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Here is what happens energetically when you choose play and laughter:</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Heart Chakra Expansion:</span><span> Pure joy acts like a gentle explosion in the center of your chest, shattering stagnant grief and opening the heart to receive.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Solar Plexus Ignition:</span><span> Laughter physically pumps your diaphragm, which directly stimulates your solar plexus&mdash;the seat of your personal power, sovereignty, and authentic self.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Aura Brightening:</span><span> High-frequency emotions literally expand your energetic boundary, making your aura vibrant and resilient against outside negativity. Laughter is the ultimate energetic reset button.</span></span><br />&#8203;</li></ul></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/published/innerchild-joy.png?1779388543" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">Your June "Playwork" Challenge</font></strong></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">As women, we are deeply conditioned to be the caretakers, the achievers, and the planners. We are allowed to have "fun," but only after the house is clean, the clients are taken care of, and the to-do list is empty.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">This week, I challenge you to flip the script. Try a few of these mystical micro-adventures to invite the "Wild Child" back out:</span></span><ol><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Conduct a Joy Audit:</span><span> Look at your upcoming week. How much of it is filled with "shoulds" versus things that genuinely make your chest feel light? Schedule at least one hour of completely non-productive, purely-for-the-plot fun.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Consult the Cards for Your Inner Child:</span><span> Pull out your Tarot or Rune deck, pull a single card, and ask: </span><span>"What does my inner child want to play with this week?"</span><span> If you pull the Sun (Sowilo) or the Fool, it&rsquo;s a cosmic green light to let loose.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Dance to Shake the Stagnation:</span><span> Put on a song from your teenage years&mdash;the one you used to blast in your bedroom when no one was watching&mdash;and dance like an absolute lunatic for three minutes. Let your body move without trying to make it look graceful.</span></span></li></ol><br /><span><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">True Empowerment Includes Pleasure</font></strong></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Spiritual growth isn't just about surviving the dark nights of the soul; it&rsquo;s about having the capacity to hold immense light, pleasure, and fun. You did not come to this planet just to survive and heal; you came here to live, to taste the summer fruit, to feel the sun on your skin, and to revel in the magic of being alive.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Put down the self-help books for the weekend. Go outside, find what makes you smile, and let joy be your medicine.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">Ready to Reclaim Your Wild, Sovereign Self?</span><br /><font color="#1f1f1f">True empowerment means living a life aligned with your desires, not everyone else's expectations. If you are ready to break free from the rules, heal your energetic boundaries, and step into unapologetic joy, let&rsquo;s work together. [</font><a href="https://www.terrilundquist.com/store/p60/Private_Empowerment_Coaching.html" target="_blank" style=""><font color="#8640ae">Click here to check out my Private Empowerment Coaching sessions</font></a><font color="#1f1f1f">] or </font><a href="https://www.terrilundquist.com/store/p25/Tarot-Reading.html" target="_blank" style=""><font color="#8640ae">book a 1:1 Tarot and Rune illumination session</font></a><font color="#1f1f1f"> to see what the second half of your year has in store!</font></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Shamanic and Reiki Guide to Welcoming the Summer Solstice]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/a-shamanic-and-reiki-guide-to-welcoming-the-summer-solstice]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/a-shamanic-and-reiki-guide-to-welcoming-the-summer-solstice#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Reiki Healing]]></category><category><![CDATA[Shamanic Wisdom]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/a-shamanic-and-reiki-guide-to-welcoming-the-summer-solstice</guid><description><![CDATA[       There is a distinct shift in the air when June reaches its midpoint. The nights grow shorter, the days stretch out, and the earth seems to hum with a brilliant, untamed vitality.This is the energy of the Summer Solstice&mdash;the longest day of the year, the peak of solar power, and a massive cosmic turning point.In modern life, we tend to treat seasonal shifts like calendar administrative notes. But in shamanic traditions, the Solstice is an incredibly sacred, potent threshold. It repres [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/summer-reiki_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">There is a distinct shift in the air when June reaches its midpoint. The nights grow shorter, the days stretch out, and the earth seems to hum with a brilliant, untamed vitality.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">This is the energy of the </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">Summer Solstice</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&mdash;the longest day of the year, the peak of solar power, and a massive cosmic turning point.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">In modern life, we tend to treat seasonal shifts like calendar administrative notes. But in shamanic traditions, the Solstice is an incredibly sacred, potent threshold. It represents the absolute marriage of Heaven and Earth, a time when the veil is thin and the Sun sits at the height of its power as a cosmic catalyst.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">The medicine of the Solstice is clear: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">It is time to step out of the shadows, burn away what is keeping you small, and claim your sovereign right to shine.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">As a women's empowerment coach and energy healer, I see so many women hiding their magic, swallowing their truth, and playing small so they don't make others uncomfortable. If you have been waiting for a sign to reclaim your personal power, the Solstice is your cosmic green light. Here is how to work with this fiery, high-frequency energy to burn away old blocks and step into your full majesty.</span></span><br /><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">The Energetics of Solar Power &amp; The Solar Plexus</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Energetically, the Summer Solstice is deeply tied to your </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">Solar Plexus Chakra</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"> (located right above your navel). This chakra is your internal sun. It is the seat of your confidence, your boundaries, your willpower, and your authentic sovereignty.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">When your Solar Plexus is stagnant or blocked, you experience things like chronic people-pleasing, self-doubt, fear of visibility, and an inability to say a firm, empowered </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&ldquo;No.&rdquo;</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"> The Solstice offers a massive influx of cosmic light that can act like a spiritual laser, breaking up that stagnation. But fire is an active element. To truly receive this medicine, you have to be willing to engage with it through ritual and intention.</span></span><br />&#8203;</div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:288px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/published/the-fire-of-transformation.png?1779388067" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">A Shamanic &amp; Reiki Ritual for the Solstice: The Fire of Transformation</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">You do not need a massive bonfire to do this ritual (though if you have one, use it!). A single candle flame carries the exact same elemental consciousness. This ritual combines shamanic release with Reiki intention to help you compost your blocks and fuel your power.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Step 1: Identify the "Kindling"</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Before you light your flame, take out a piece of paper. This paper represents the old skin you are ready to shed. Ask yourself honestly:</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span>What old stories am I ready to stop telling?</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span>What fear, self-doubt, or boundary leak is keeping me from stepping into my full visibility?</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span>Write these things down. Be specific. Own them, and then prepare to let them go.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Step 2: Invoke the Fire and Reiki Energy</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Light your candle or bonfire. If you are trained in Reiki, draw the distance symbol (Hon-Sha-Ze-Sho-Nen) and the power symbol (Cho-Ku-Rei) over the flame, intending to connect with the infinite, timeless source of solar light.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Sit quietly and stare into the flame. Breathe in the gold, warm light, visualizing it filling your belly&mdash;igniting your own internal sun.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Step 3: The Shamanic Burn</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Safely hold your piece of paper over the flame and watch it catch fire, dropping it into a fire-safe bowl or the ashes of your bonfire. As the paper burns to ash, say aloud or in your mind:</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&ldquo;I release the illusion of my smallness. I compost these fears into the sacred fire. They no longer have a home in my energetic space.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">In shamanism, we know that fire doesn't just destroy; it transforms. You are converting the heavy, dense energy of your blocks into light, heat, and freedom.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><strong>Step 4: Seal Your Aura</strong></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Once the paper is completely ash, place both hands over your Solar Plexus. Imagine a radiant, golden shield expanding from your core, zipping up your aura, and locking in your personal power. This is your energetic firewall for the second half of the year.</span></span><br /><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">Step Into Your Radiance</font></strong></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">True empowerment is a choice. The sun doesn&rsquo;t apologize for being too bright, and it doesn&rsquo;t dim its light because someone else prefers the shade. It simply shines because that is its nature.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">You are a part of nature, too. Your radiance is not a threat to anyone else; it is a gift to the world. Use this Solstice to stand tall, look the world in the eye, and claim your throne.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#8640ae" size="5">Are You Ready to Unapologetically Claim Your Throne?</font></span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Breaking free from old programming and stepping into your visible, sovereign power is a journey&mdash;and you don't have to walk it alone. If you are ready to heal your solar plexus, set iron-clad boundaries, and stand tall in your magic, let&rsquo;s work together.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Too Restless to Sit? How to Practice "Wild Meditation" This Summer]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/too-restless-to-sit-how-to-practice-wild-meditation-this-summer]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/too-restless-to-sit-how-to-practice-wild-meditation-this-summer#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Earth Based Spirituality & Sacred Living]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/too-restless-to-sit-how-to-practice-wild-meditation-this-summer</guid><description><![CDATA[       We&rsquo;ve all been there. It&rsquo;s a gorgeous, warm summer day, the birds are loud, the sun is shining, and you decide it&rsquo;s the perfect time to connect with your spiritual practice. You sit cross-legged on your cushion, close your eyes, and take a deep breath.And within forty seconds, your brain is screaming.&ldquo;My foot is asleep. I wonder if I turned off the stove? I should be outside. Why is that bird so loud? Am I doing this right? I&rsquo;m bad at meditating.&rdquo;If try [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/restless_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span>We&rsquo;ve all been there. It&rsquo;s a gorgeous, warm summer day, the birds are loud, the sun is shining, and you decide it&rsquo;s the perfect time to connect with your spiritual practice. You sit cross-legged on your cushion, close your eyes, and take a deep breath.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>And within forty seconds, your brain is screaming.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>&ldquo;My foot is asleep. I wonder if I turned off the stove? I should be outside. Why is that bird so loud? Am I doing this right? I&rsquo;m bad at meditating.&rdquo;</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>If trying to force your mind into a silent, static void makes you feel like crawling out of your skin&mdash;especially during the vibrant, high-energy months of summer&mdash;I have a secret for you as a shamanic practitioner and meditation leader:</span></span><br /><br /><em><span><span>Your restlessness isn&rsquo;t a failure. It&rsquo;s data. And right now, your soul is rejecting a cage.</span></span><br /></em><br /><span><span>In our modern wellness culture, we&rsquo;ve been told that meditation only "counts" if you are perfectly still, silent, and detached. But summer is the season of peak solar power, outward expansion, and primal life force. Forcing yourself into rigid stillness right now is like trying to freeze running water.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>It&rsquo;s time to leave the cushion behind and step into </span><span style="font-weight:700">Wild Meditation</span><span>.</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><span><font size="6" color="#8640ae">What is Wild Meditation?</font></span></strong><br /><span><span>Wild Meditation is an animist and shamanic approach to mindfulness. Instead of trying to </span><span>detach</span><span> from the world around you, you intentionally </span><span>connect</span><span> to it. Instead of silencing your senses, you awaken them.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>In shamanic traditions, we don't view nature as a backdrop; we view it as a living, breathing web of consciousness. When you practice Wild Meditation, you are matching your internal frequency to the vibrant rhythm of the Earth. It shifts your nervous system out of "fight-or-flight" and into a state of </span><span style="font-weight:700">felt safety</span><span> through dynamic, sensory immersion.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>If your mind is too buzzed for a silent room, your energy needs a destination. Here are three ways to practice Wild Meditation this week:</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">1. Earthing &amp; The Rhythmic Shamanic Walk</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>Instead of sitting still, let your feet do the meditating. Find a safe patch of grass, dirt, or sand, and take off your shoes. As you begin to walk, match your breath to your footsteps.</span></span><br /><br /><ul><li><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Practice:</span><span> Inhale for three steps, exhale for three steps.</span></span></li></ul> &nbsp;<ul><li><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Energetics:</span><span> Focus entirely on the soles of your feet. With every step, consciously imagine sending heavy, frantic, or anxious energy down through your roots into the Earth to be composted. With every inhale, pull up the cool, stabilizing frequency of the ground. This is active Reiki for your root chakra.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">2. The Elemental Symphony (Auditory Tracking)</span></span><br /><span><span>When our minds are racing, it&rsquo;s usually because our awareness is trapped in our heads. We can use the summer sounds to pull that awareness back into our bodies.</span></span><br /><br /><ul><li><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Practice</span><span>: Find a spot outside and close your eyes. Instead of trying to ignore the sounds around you, hunt for them. Find the furthest sound away (a distant car, a airplane). Then, find the closest sound (your own breath, a bug buzzing near your ear). Identify three distinct bird songs. Listen to the wind through the leaves.</span></span></li></ul> &nbsp;<ul><li><span><span>&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight:700">The Energetics</span><span>: By giving your brain a "job" (tracking sounds), the frantic inner monologue naturally quiets down. You aren't forcing silence; you are replacing chaos with harmony.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">3. Somatic Shaking &amp; Moving Mindfulness</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>Summer energy can sometimes get trapped in our bodies as anxiety or restlessness. In shamanism, we know that stagnant energy must be physically moved before the mind can rest.</span></span><br /><br /><ul><li><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Practice</span><span>: Put on a drum track or a song that moves you. Stand up, close your eyes, and just start shaking. Shake your hands, bounce your heels, let your shoulders loose. Do this for just two or three minutes.</span></span></li></ul> &nbsp;<ul><li><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Energetics:</span><span> Shaking breaks up emotional density in your aura and releases physical tension from your nervous system. Once the song ends, stand completely still, place one hand on your heart and one on your solar plexus, and feel the tingling life force running through your veins. *That* vibrant stillness is meditation.</span></span></li></ul><br /><strong><span><font size="6" color="#8640ae">Give Yourself Permission to Change the Rules</font></span></strong><br /><span><span>As a women's empowerment coach, I spend a lot of time helping women break free from rules that don't serve them&mdash;and that includes spiritual rules.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>Your spiritual practice should feel like a sanctuary, not another item on your to-do list that you're failing at. If your soul is calling you to move, to touch the t rees, to dance, or to just lay flat on the grass and watch the clouds pass by--</span><span style="font-weight:700">trust that medicine.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>This week, I challenge you to take your practice wild. Meet the Earth at her current frequency, let your body move, and remember that you are a part of the nature you are trying so hard to connect with.</span></span><br /><br /><strong><span><font size="6" color="#8640ae">Step Deeper Into Your Power This Summer:</font></span></strong><br /><span><span>If you are ready to stop forcing yourself into boxes that don't fit and want to learn how to truly harness your personal power, boundaries, and energetic sovereignty, I&rsquo;d love to guide you. [<strong><a href="https://www.terrilundquist.com/store/p60/Private_Empowerment_Coaching.html" target="_blank"><font color="#8640ae">Click here to explore my 1:1 Empowerment Coaching Sessions</font></a></strong>] or join us for an upcoming women&rsquo;s circle by signing up below.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>[<a href="https://subscribepage.io/womens-circle-colorado" target="_blank"><font color="#8640ae">Women&rsquo;s Circle link</font></a>]</span></span><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sound Check: How to Recognize the Voice of Your Higher Self]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/sound-check-how-to-recognize-the-voice-of-your-higher-self]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/sound-check-how-to-recognize-the-voice-of-your-higher-self#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Self Love]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/sound-check-how-to-recognize-the-voice-of-your-higher-self</guid><description><![CDATA[       We live in a loud world, but some of the loudest noise happens entirely inside our own heads.On any given day, your mind is like a crowded executive boardroom. You&rsquo;ve got the Inner Critic pointing out your flaws, the People-Pleaser worrying about everyone else's comfort, the Planner organizing next week's schedule, and the Ego trying desperately to keep you safe by keeping you small.But beneath all that chatter, there is another voice. It&rsquo;s quiet, it&rsquo;s steady, and it hol [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/higher-self_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">We live in a loud world, but some of the loudest noise happens entirely inside our own heads.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">On any given day, your mind is like a crowded executive boardroom. You&rsquo;ve got the Inner Critic pointing out your flaws, the People-Pleaser worrying about everyone else's comfort, the Planner organizing next week's schedule, and the Ego trying desperately to keep you safe by keeping you small.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">But beneath all that chatter, there is another voice. It&rsquo;s quiet, it&rsquo;s steady, and it holds the absolute truth of who you are. This is the voice of your </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31); font-weight:700">Higher Self</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">&mdash;your soul, your divine spark, your highest consciousness.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">As a shamanic practitioner and intuitive reader, the number one question I get from women who are trying to reclaim their power is: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><em>&ldquo;How do I know if I&rsquo;m actually hearing my Higher Self, or if I&rsquo;m just making it up? How do I tell the difference between intuition and anxiety?&rdquo;</em></span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">If you&rsquo;ve been struggling to hear that inner guidance, it&rsquo;s not because your Higher Self is silent. It&rsquo;s just that you haven&rsquo;t learned its specific frequency yet. Here is how to do an energetic "sound check" and accurately recognize the voice of your soul.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:263px;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:2px;*margin-top:4px'><a><img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/published/look-for-the-tone.png?1779316085" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">1. Look for the Tone (The Higher Self Doesn't Scold)</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">The easiest way to tell who is speaking in your mind is to check the emotional tone of the message.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Ego/Anxiety:</span><span> This voice can be frantic, loud, repetitive, and legalistic. It uses words like </span><span>should, must, always,</span><span> and </span><span>never</span><span>. It creates a sense of immediate urgency (e.g., </span><span>"If you don't do this right now, everything will fall apart"</span><span>). It criticizes you or tries to scare you into action.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Higher Self:</span><span> This voice is calm, neutral, and incredibly loving&mdash;even when delivering a hard truth. It speaks in short, simple phrases. It doesn&rsquo;t explain itself or give a 10-point lecture; it just states what is. If a thought makes you feel constricted and panicked, it&rsquo;s anxiety. If a thought makes you feel spacious and grounded (even if it&rsquo;s challenging), it&rsquo;s your Higher Self.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">2. Track the Somatic Response (Listen with Your Body)</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">In shamanic and energy healing traditions, we know that the body is an antenna for the soul. Your mind can be tricked, but your nervous system cannot. When your Higher Self speaks, your physical body responds.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Sensation of Truth:</span><span> Notice what happens in your body when an intuitive hit drops in. For many women, it feels like a sudden drop in pressure&mdash;a literal "settling" in the gut or an opening expansion in the heart chakra. You might take a spontaneous deep breath, or feel a wave of peaceful goosebumps (what I&rsquo;ve heard called "truth bumps").</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">The Sensation of Fear:</span><span> Anxiety and ego thoughts immediately trigger a contraction. Your shoulders hike up, your jaw tightens, your stomach knots, or your breath becomes shallow. Your body is telling you that this thought is born from fear, not divine guidance.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">3. The Test of First Impression</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Your Higher Self operates in the realm of the immediate. It lives in the micro-second </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">before</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"> your logical brain boots up and starts analyzing everything.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Have you ever pulled a Tarot card or a Rune, and in the first fraction of a second, a specific knowing popped into your head&mdash;only for you to immediately overwrite it with, </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">"No, that can't be right, let me look at the guidebook"</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">? That first, unedited whisper was your Higher Self.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Your soul speaks in flashes of insight, sudden "knowings" (claircognizance), or quiet images. The doubt, the rationalizing, and the second-guessing that follow? That&rsquo;s just your ego trying to take the steering wheel back.</span></span><br /><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">How to Tune Into the Right Frequency</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">If you want to hear your Higher Self more clearly, you have to intentionally lower the volume of the external world. You don&rsquo;t need a 2-hour meditation ritual to do this; you just need a few moments of intentional alignment:</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Clear the Static:</span><span> Before asking for guidance, use a quick Reiki self-treatment or a shamanic breath pattern to clear the frantic energy from your space.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Ask a Direct Question:</span><span> Sit quietly, place your hands on your heart or solar plexus, and ask a clear question. </span><span>&ldquo;What is the truest next step for me here?&rdquo;</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"><span><span style="font-weight:700">Write without Thinking:</span><span> Take out a journal and write down whatever comes up instantly, without editing, judging, or correcting. Let the soul speak before the brain can stop it.</span></span></li></ul><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">Trust Your Inner Oracle</font></strong></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">As an empowerment coach, my ultimate goal isn&rsquo;t to give you the answers&mdash;it&rsquo;s to guide you back to your own internal compass. You are your own best oracle. The wisdom you are searching for outside of yourself is already sitting quietly in your bones, waiting for you to slow down enough to listen.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">This week, when a thought pops into your head, pause and ask: </span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">Does this sound like fear, or does this sound like my soul?</span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)"> Trust the quiet voice. It has never steered you wrong.</span></span><br /><br /><em><font size="5"><span><span style="font-weight:700"><font color="#8c48b7">Want to Deepen Your Intuitive Discernment?</font></span></span></font></em><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(31, 31, 31)">If you are ready to learn how to trust your own inner voice, clear the energetic blocks clouding your intuition, and step into your full sovereign power, let&rsquo;s connect.&nbsp;</span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div id="703465368228705788"><div><style type="text/css">	#element-cdd8e530-5f5f-4ea1-a627-225a95d0f839 .ui-waddons-btn .wsite-button {  background: none !important;  padding: 0 !important;  border: 0 !important;  border-radius: 0 !important;}#element-cdd8e530-5f5f-4ea1-a627-225a95d0f839 .ui-waddons-btn .wsite-button-inner {  background: #8640ae !important;  padding: 0 14px !important;  height: 35px !important;  line-height: 35px !important;  border: 1px solid #8640ae !important; 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It has been very much in the masculine energy realm. Defined by pushing, striving, proving, energy over another.We&rsquo;ve been taught that to be powerful, we must be louder, faster, harder. That strength looks like endurance. Like productivity. Like never needing to rest. But there is another way. A quieter way. A deeper way. The feminine way.&#8203;      The Misunderstanding of StrengthWhat if strength is not something you perform&hellip [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/pexels-arthousestudio-4640845_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span>For so long, strength has been defined by force. It has been very much in the masculine energy realm. Defined by pushing, striving, proving, energy </span><span>over</span><span> another.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>We&rsquo;ve been taught that to be powerful, we must be louder, faster, harder. That strength looks like endurance. Like productivity. Like never needing to rest. But there is another way. A quieter way. A deeper way. The feminine way.</span></span><br />&#8203;</div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><strong style=""><font color="#8640ae" size="6">The Misunderstanding of Strength</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>What if strength is not something you perform&hellip;But something you </span><span style="font-weight:700">remember</span><span>? The feminine does not rise through force. She rises through </span><span style="font-weight:700">presence</span><span>. Through listening. Through attunement. Through the willingness to feel instead of override. This is the </span><span style="font-weight:700">soft power of becoming</span><span>. This is the feminine way.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong><font color="#8640ae" size="6">What Soft Power Actually Looks Like</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Soft power is not weakness. It is the courage to:<br /></span></span><ul><li><span><span>Pause when everything in you wants to push</span></span></li><li><span><span>Speak truth without needing to dominate</span></span></li><li><span><span>Honor your rhythm instead of forcing someone else&rsquo;s</span></span></li><li><span><span>Stay open in a world that rewards armor</span></span></li></ul> <span><span><br />It is strength without hardness. Power without control. Presence without performance.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Becoming Instead of Proving</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>There is a quiet shift that happens when you stop trying to prove your worth. You begin to </span><span style="font-weight:700">become it</span><span>. Not all at once and not perfectly. But naturally. Like spring unfolding. Like something within you remembering how to rise.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">A Gentle Practice</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Today, instead of asking: </span><span style="font-weight:700">What do I need to do to be enough?<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Ask: </span><span style="font-weight:700">What would it feel like to trust that I already am?<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Let your body answer. Let your breath soften. Let your pace slow. Because becoming is not a race. It is a return.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">A New Definition of Strength</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Feminine strength is not how much you can carry. It is how deeply you can stay connected to yourself while you carry it. And when you live from that place&mdash;you no longer need to prove your power. You embody it.</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Creative Energy as Sacred Energy: Why Your Desire to Create Matters]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/creative-energy-as-sacred-energy-why-your-desire-to-create-matters]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/creative-energy-as-sacred-energy-why-your-desire-to-create-matters#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Connecting]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/creative-energy-as-sacred-energy-why-your-desire-to-create-matters</guid><description><![CDATA[       There is a quiet impulse that lives within you. A pull toward something. To write. To make. To imagine. To bring something into form that did not exist before.So often, we dismiss it. We tell ourselves it&rsquo;s not important. Not productive. Not even necessary.But what if that desire is not random? What if it is sacred?&#8203;       Creativity as Life ForceCreative energy is not just artistic expression. It is life force energy.The same energy that moves the seasons. That brings blossom [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/creative-energy-1_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><span>There is a quiet impulse that lives within you. A pull toward something. To write. To make. To imagine. To bring something into form that did not exist before.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>So often, we dismiss it. We tell ourselves it&rsquo;s not important. Not productive. Not even necessary.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span>But what if that desire is not random? What if it is sacred?<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:420px;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/published/creative-energy-2.jpg?1776976505" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Creativity as Life Force</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Creative energy is not just artistic expression. It is </span><span style="font-weight:700">life force energy</span><span>.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>The same energy that moves the seasons. That brings blossoms to branches. That turns seeds into something living.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>In many traditions, this is understood as </span><span style="font-weight:700">creative life energy</span><span>&mdash;</span><br /><span>a force that flows through us, not from us. And when we ignore it, we don&rsquo;t just silence creativity. We disconnect from something essential within ourselves.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Why We Resist Creating</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Creation requires presence. It asks us to slow down. To listen. To move without knowing the outcome. And in a world that values certainty and productivity, this can feel uncomfortable.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>So we postpone it. We minimize it. We say, &ldquo;I&rsquo;ll get to it later.&rdquo; But creative energy does not disappear. It waits.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>When you allow yourself to create&mdash;even in the smallest ways&mdash;you reconnect. Not just to your ideas. But to your intuition. Your body. Your inner rhythm. To Source. Creation becomes less about output&hellip;and more about </span><span style="font-weight:700">alignment</span><span>.<br /></span></span>&#8203;<br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Simple Creative Rituals</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Choose something small today:<br /></span></span><ul><li><span><span>Write one page</span></span></li><li><span><span>Arrange flowers</span></span></li><li><span><span>Cook without a recipe</span></span></li><li><span><span>Sit with a journal and follow what wants to emerge</span></span><br /><span><span></span></span><br /></li></ul> <span><span>Before you begin, pause and breathe.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Then ask:<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">What wants to move through me today?<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Not what </span><span>should</span><span>. Not what&rsquo;s </span><span>expected</span><span>. But </span><span style="font-weight:700">what is alive within you</span><span>.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Your desire to create is not frivolous. It is not something to earn. It is part of your design. And when you honor it, you don&rsquo;t just make things. You </span><span style="font-weight:700">become more fully yourself</span><span>.</span></span><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Walking with the Spirit of Spring: What Nature Is Teaching Us Right Now]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/walking-with-the-spirit-of-spring-what-nature-is-teaching-us-right-now]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/walking-with-the-spirit-of-spring-what-nature-is-teaching-us-right-now#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Earth Based Spirituality & Sacred Living]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/walking-with-the-spirit-of-spring-what-nature-is-teaching-us-right-now</guid><description><![CDATA[       &#8203;The Spirit of a PlaceAs I&rsquo;ve mentioned before, in shamanic understanding, everything has a presence. A consciousness. A spirit. Not just people&mdash;but places.&nbsp;&#127794; A forest. &#127969; A home.&#127966;&#65039; A landscape.Each carries its own energy, its own way of being. And spring has a spirit, too. A quiet, persistent invitation toward life.      What Spring Teaches UsSpring does not force growth. It allows it. It does not rush. It trusts timing. Beneath the su [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/spring-woman_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong><font size="6" color="#8640ae">&#8203;</font></strong><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">The Spirit of a Place</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>As I&rsquo;ve mentioned before, in shamanic understanding, everything has a presence. A consciousness. A spirit. Not just people&mdash;but places.&nbsp;<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>&#127794; A forest. </span><br /><span>&#127969; A home.</span><br /><span>&#127966;&#65039; A landscape.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Each carries its own energy, its own way of being. And spring has a spirit, too. A quiet, persistent invitation toward life.</span></span><br /><br /></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">What Spring Teaches Us<br /></font></strong><br /></span><span><span>Spring does not force growth. It allows it. It does not rush. It trusts timing. Beneath the surface, so much has already been happening&mdash;roots deepening, energy gathering, life preparing. And then, at the right moment&hellip;It emerges.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Spring reminds us:</span></span><ul><li><span><span>Growth is not always visible at first</span></span></li><li><span><span>Timing cannot be rushed</span></span></li><li><span><span>What is meant to bloom will bloom<br /></span></span><br /></li></ul> <span><span>To connect with the spirit of spring, you don&rsquo;t need a complex ritual. You simply need to </span><span style="font-weight:700">notice</span><span>. Step outside. Feel the air against your skin. Listen to what is changing. Let yourself be in relationship with the living world around you.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">A Simple Nature Practice<br /></font></strong><br /></span><span><span>Find a place&mdash;a tree, a patch of earth, a quiet path. Stand or sit there for a few moments. Breathe. And ask:<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">What are you showing me right now?<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Then listen. Not with your mind, but with your body. You may feel a sense of patience. A soft encouragement. A reminder that you, too, are part of this unfolding.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">You Are Not Separate</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Spring is not happening around you. It is happening </span><span style="font-weight:700">within you</span><span>. The same intelligence that moves the seasons&hellip;moves through your life. And when you slow down enough to notice,</span><br /><span>you begin to remember that you are not behind or late. You are simply blooming and becoming&mdash;in your own time, in your own way.</span></span><br /><br />&#8203;</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Healing the Mother Wound: A Gentle Path Back to Wholeness]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/healing-the-mother-wound-a-gentle-path-back-to-wholeness]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/healing-the-mother-wound-a-gentle-path-back-to-wholeness#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2026 15:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.terrilundquist.com/blog-terri-lundquist/healing-the-mother-wound-a-gentle-path-back-to-wholeness</guid><description><![CDATA[       A ConfessionLet me begin with a quiet confession.For many years&mdash;long enough that time began to blur at the edges&mdash;I was estranged from my mother. There was distance, silence, and all the unspoken things that can live between two people who once belonged so closely to one another.Near the end of her life, when she was in the hospital, I went to her. Not to resolve everything, not to rewrite the past, but to be present. I wanted her to know that I loved her. And somewhere beneath [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/woman-embracing-younger-202604240257_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">A Confession<br /><br /></font></strong></span><span><span>Let me begin with a quiet confession.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>For many years&mdash;long enough that time began to blur at the edges&mdash;I was estranged from my mother. There was distance, silence, and all the unspoken things that can live between two people who once belonged so closely to one another.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Near the end of her life, when she was in the hospital, I went to her. Not to resolve everything, not to rewrite the past, but to be present. I wanted her to know that I loved her. And somewhere beneath it all, I knew she loved me too. We had both done the best we could within our own imperfect, human lives.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>I held her hand and sat with her in that quiet in-between space. There was a kind of peace there&mdash;simple, real, and unexpectedly beautiful. I wanted her to be able to let go without carrying anything more.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>After she passed, something shifted. In a way I hadn&rsquo;t anticipated, I felt closer to her than I had in years. The layers of hurt, the old patterns, the places where we triggered one another&mdash;they softened, or perhaps fell away entirely. What remained was her essence. Her soul. And that, I could finally meet without resistance.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>So when I speak about the mother wound, I am not speaking from theory.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>I am speaking from a place I have lived.<br />&#8203;</span></span><br /><span><span>And perhaps, in some way, am still learning to understand.</span></span></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">What Is the Mother Wound?</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>The </span><span style="font-weight:700">mother wound</span><span> is not about labeling your mother as &ldquo;good&rdquo; or &ldquo;bad.&rdquo;</span><br /><span>It is about acknowledging that no mother is able to meet every need perfectly. For some, the wound is subtle&mdash;a lack of emotional attunement, an absence of presence, a feeling of needing to be &ldquo;easy&rdquo; or &ldquo;good.&rdquo; For others, it may be more pronounced&mdash;criticism, distance, control, or even neglect. But the invitation here is not to dwell in the past.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>It is to gently ask:<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">Where did I learn I was not enough?</span><br /><span style="font-weight:700">Where did I learn love had conditions?</span><br /><span style="font-weight:700">Where did I leave parts of myself behind in order to belong?</span></span><br /><br /></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:249px;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:3px;*margin-top:6px'><a><img src="https://www.terrilundquist.com/uploads/5/6/6/8/56687517/published/pexels-phototribbiani-9455853.jpg?1776974910" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Healing Without Blame</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>True healing does not require you to blame your mother. And it does not ask you to excuse what was painful. It simply asks you to </span><span style="font-weight:700">tell the truth&mdash;softly, honestly, and without abandoning yourself in the process.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Your mother, too, was shaped by her own lineage. Her own wounds. Her own unmet needs. This does not erase your experience. But it allows space for something deeper than blame:</span><br /><span style="font-weight:700">understanding, compassion, and ultimately&mdash;freedom.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Returning to Yourself</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Healing the mother wound is not about fixing the past. It is about </span><span style="font-weight:700">re-mothering yourself in the present.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>It looks like:</span></span><ul><li><span><span>Speaking to yourself with kindness instead of criticism</span></span></li><li><span><span>Allowing your emotions instead of dismissing them</span></span></li><li><span><span>Resting without guilt</span></span></li><li><span><span>Honoring your needs as valid and worthy</span></span></li><li><span><span>Holding the younger version of you in your heart and telling her she is loved</span></span><br /><span><span></span></span><br /></li></ul> <span><span>It is a quiet, daily practice of becoming the safe place you once needed.<br /></span></span><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">A Simple Healing Practice</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span>Place your hand gently over your heart. Take a slow breath in.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>And ask:<br /></span></span><br /><span><span style="font-weight:700">What part of me is still waiting to be held?<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Stay there. Listen&mdash;not for an answer in words, but for a feeling, a memory, or a knowing.<br /></span></span><br /><span><span>Then softly offer:<br /></span></span><br /><em><span><span>I am here now.</span><br /><span>You don&rsquo;t have to earn love anymore.</span><br /><span>You are already worthy.<br /></span></span></em><br /><span><strong style=""><font size="6" style="" color="#8640ae">Be the One</font></strong><br /><br /></span><span><span style="font-weight:700">The one who ends the cycle. </span><br /><span style="font-weight:700">The one who chooses differently. </span><br /><span style="font-weight:700">The one who remembers.</span></span><br />&#8203;</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>